Relationship memory
The people you love say things worth remembering.
After a call with your mother, a coffee with an old friend, a chat with your kid — speak a short note. Cognom keeps a living portrait of each person: what they told you, what to ask about next time, the exact words worth keeping.
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This week
Everyone gets one question a week.
One question, once a week — the same one for everyone in your circle. You read their answers once you've given yours. Never a streak, never a nudge to perform.
How it works
A note becomes a portrait
Talk the way you'd tell a friend. Cognom does the filing.
Your voice note
Mum's portrait
An illustration — your notes never leave your account.
Talk, then tell Cognom
After a conversation, record a 30-second voice note about it — or just type. No forms, no fields. Say it the way you'd tell a friend.
The portrait grows
Cognom listens and updates that person's portrait — the facts of their life right now, open threads to follow up on, quotes worth keeping, the people in their world.
Never walk in cold
Before the next call, glance at their page: what's pending, what to ask, what mattered last time. Small attentions, remembered.
Together
Made for a family's memory
The parts that work are the ones you give, not the ones you disclose.
Shared moments
Keep photos of the times that mattered, tag who was there, and send a moment to them — even if they don't have Cognom yet.
A voice, kept
Once in a while, a recording is too precious to lose. Choose to keep a short voice keepsake — deliberately, with consent, every single time.
Time capsules
Seal a story or a message for someone's future — a wedding day, an eighteenth birthday — and it stays sealed until its day comes.
Private by default
Your notes are yours
Audio is transcribed and then discarded — Cognom keeps the words, not the voice, unless you deliberately keep a keepsake. Nothing is shared unless you share it, and anything you share can be revoked.